2.0 (finally)

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I already had to set up this boundary on tumblr but if anyone puts too much discourse on my feed then it's on sight. I don't want a repeat of "spending months having regular mental breakdowns over if I'm good enough or not because I didn't fully show my support for this wildly inappropriate thing"

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@noahebalon someone put lead into the water there. I'm still there because I genuinely appreciate the format/UI and have friends that still only really exist there but good god I don't want to hear another lick about the tma/tme binary as long as I live

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I just wanted to not be a Bad Person and respect trans people, not have to deal with the "is discrimination against trans men real or a psyop to discredit trans women" debate

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tumblr is actually poisoned like I genuinely nearly got sucked into the black hole that is the "being against pedophilia is transmisogynistic" discourse. I gotta start blocking people like hell out there

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ok I've had some time to myself. to make it short I Really need to work on self regulation and actually coping with things myself instead of offloading it onto other people, and I also need to just Do the thing instead of complaining that I don't know how

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@MastodonEngineering I answered the survey, but just to give my thoughts on the matter:

  • The thing that matters most to me on deciding who to follow is if their posts align with my interests. Their bio is also a pretty good indicator of this.
  • Having recommendations from people that I follow is a really cool idea that I'm surprised that nobody has really done yet, I'd love to see this get implemented!
  • I agree that the UX on this survey is a bit of a mess but I understand that this is just Tally's fault and probably works a lot better on a device with more display space.
  • Please don't get discouraged by the hecklers in the audience. Being very strict on ideology without any room to compromise for usability often leads to very confusing/broken products.

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honestly I'm just burnt out as hell. I got ostracized for being Wrong multiple times and ever since then I've been panicking and stumbling over myself just to try and not be wrong and now I'm tired and afraid of talking to people. I need a lot of rest and to be accepted and other nice things

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