eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
being aspec is always a bit confusing at best because it's kind of being queer but in the other direction. like it isn't radical forms of romance/sexuality/gender but instead wanting to back off from that kind of thing or just not feeling it in the first place
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eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
@rpgwaiter @ptrc aspec (aromantic/asexual/agender spectrum) stuff is an entire interesting rabbit hole of "what do people do if they don't even want to be a part of this or only really want just a little" and it's super overlooked because we're kind of queer in the other direction
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eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
@rpgwaiter @ptrc as someone who is aromantic (on top of sex-repulsed asexual) I can't say that I'm qualified for this but AFAIK romance is basically when you find someone attractive and you're just like "I need to be with this person forever" or something like that as opposed to friendship where you're independent but like to hang out and do stuff together.
there's also the secret third thing: queerplatonic relationships. that's basically being extremely friends with someone but not traditionally attracted to each other so you kind of end up between the two
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eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
@xfts to be fair they have gotten quite a bit of money from me buying stuff 😅
eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
it's crazy how I have an entire physical media library now. I am unstoppable
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eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
@natty @puppygirlhornypost2 look I'm a sex repulsed ace, what am I supposed to do with myself here
eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
cobalt typing away at a computer wearing a tshirt that says "I fix bugs but I wish someone would fix this one"
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eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
@puppygirlhornypost2 I mean. at least it's CWed this time
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eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
@puppygirlhornypost2 very ironic username for this discussion lol
but yeah I guess there are people out there! it just seems that I tend to run into the very openly kinky on main ones nine times out of ten and it's very aggravating to me. bluh
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eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
if anyone accuses me of being sex negative or thinks that people should not post anything nsfw I'm going to spray a bottle full of soapy water directly into your eyes btw
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eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
@mmiasma I'm aroace so it's easy for me to slip under the radar tbh. worried about all the trans folks out here though
eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
ok is there room for people who don't really want to engage with nsfw in the furry community. I just want to enjoy people's scrunklies without being caught off guard by someone's fetish or whatever
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eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
@mmiasma hey look. the politicians suck out here but at least these states are undesirable enough for the cost of living to be manageable 👍
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eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
@mmiasma well hey I can look at the bright side, at least the state I live in is tied for the tenth worst
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eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
I sentence you to having your post about being frustrated with a Microsoft product get popular on mastodon.social
eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
ok look I'm happy that 11ty was able to secure a lot of funding and development of the free non-CMS side will continue for the foreseeable future but again I'm not really jazzed about the name change to "build awesome." it just feels like a downgrade
eblu @eblu@wetdry.world
RE: https://mastodon.social/@256/116902154558149991
did you see that ludicrously desaturated display last night
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